Staycations

Blue Lizard sez: We cannot believe the price of gas! It has done nothing but go up and up. Makes taking any kind of a trip...no matter how short...almost impossible. If you look around the web, you can find all kinds of ideas for a "staycation". You know, things to do around town that are free or relatively cheap. But the price of gas creeps back in.


So we thought...what can we do for a "staycation"...and stay home? Well...did some ideas pop up! We originally figured we could come up with 4 or 5 things we could do around the house to make it seem like we we taking a trip. The list has grown and doesn't seem to stop. We had no clue there were so many things we could do around here. Instead of trying to list everything we have come up with all in one sitting, we're going to spread it out...like maybe 3 or 4 at a time. So...here we go.

--- As you can see from the picture, DJ and I camp. As often as possible, we take off for the week end to a campground...usually a State Park. But why not set up camp in your own yard? Fortunately, we live in the country...so while we may be in our own yard...it feels like we are in our own private campground. Very conducive to running around naked or semi-naked!

Don't live in the country? Make your own camp indoors. You don't remember throwing blankets over a chair when you were a kid and pretending you were camping? Imagine doing it with your honey. Just as much fun (probably more so) as an adult!

---This is going to sound a little odd...but how about a romantic movie night? The list of movies is almost endless. Yeah...we know...chick flicks. But not necessarily so. Some of the movies from the 30's and 40's are manly man movies. Arrange a sofa so it faces the TV...microwave some popcorn...grab your favorite adult beverage...and enjoy. You might even get to cuddle a little and lord knows where that might end up!

---For those of us a little on the kinky side...how about a friendly game of strip poker? We've done it. The problem is...the game tends to end rather quickly. And what fun is that? You'd have to put on eight layers of clothes to make it last...even less fun. So we added a little to it.We call it "10 Questions Strip Poker". Before you start, each of you makes a list of ten questions you'd like to know the answer to. Every third hand or so...instead of removing an article of clothes, the winner gets to ask the loser a question. Make the questions as erotic or as fun as you'd like...but be prepared for the unexpected. This is a great way to delve into fantasies!

So there ya go. Our first trip down Staycation Lane. Have fun...there's more to come!

Romantic Theme Ideas

Blue Lizard sez: An idea I had early in our relationship was declaring one day...usually once a month...as "Sex Day". That meant that as often as possible on that day, we would have sex. To help keep it interesting, I came up with the idea of "Sex Day Themes".

Our first Theme Day was 'bikini bras'. That meant that throughout the day, DJ would put on a different bikini bra (she has a ton of em...I'm partial to the micro ones!). I don't see why any bra wouldn't work for this. There just happens to be a lot of bikinis around here.

As the day progressed, she went through about six bikini bras. Some of them I got to take off...some she changed into just because. Taking them off is part of the romance. I didn't take them off just so I could see her tits...but I did it slowly...sensously...to let her know how much I truly admired her breasts. And that kept her interested all day.

Another Theme Day we have used is "Short Skirt Day". Same idea as the Bikini Bra Day...just with short skirts. And what man has not wanted to peek up a short skirt or slide his hand up one.

Theme Days are fun. Part of that is to keep your partner guessing about what the next Theme Day will be. Even more fun is coming up with a theme idea.

One of the things we are going to try to do on this page is come up with a challenge for the two of you to do that is in keeping with the post. With the challenge will come an assignment. Hopefully, each challenge will keep you guessing and pondering where your Romantic Relationship is at. So, here goes the first challenge.

Challenge: This should be pretty obvious. Each of you come up with a Theme Day idea. Each of you write your idea down and put them in a hat, paper bag, whatever...and draw one out. Take turns drawing. Be interesting to see what ideas you each have.

Extra Credit: Actually have a Theme Day!

The Art of Romance

Blue Lizard Sez: It has been awhile since we have done anything with this blog. It got a little depressing that we didn't get much response...so we kind of gave up. After much soul searching and figuring out where OUR priorities are, we have decided to take this in a little bit different direction. No...we haven't given up on sex...we're still at THAT hott and heavy. We're going to think more about how to get to the hott and heavy.

Sex has to start somewhere. For me...it's romance. It's not "let's strip and fuck"...altho that is a definite option. We get to that eventually. We're going make this blog about the getting to the "strip and fuck"...we hope.

These are our opinions. Take them for what they are worth. If they help or make you think about your relationship...great. If not, let us know what works for you. We're easy!

We're going to try to post our ideas at least once a week. Hope you stop by and join us.

Sexting

Blue Lizard sez: Do you have a cell phone? Of course you do! Everybody does! Do you use it for what it was designed for? Making...gulp...phone calls?

Or do you sext? What is sexting, you ask? It's the art and science of sending and receiving sexual text messages, photos and videos on your cell phone. Kind of like on-line sex chat, only it's using your cell phone instead of your computer.

Dreamer and I spend almost all day sexting back and forth. Good thing we got unlimited texting with our plan! In my job, I do a lot of sitting. I don't have much else to do, so I tell her what I would like to do to her and with her. I give her 'suggestions' about what I would like to see her wearing when I get home

And we send pictures. Some we take of ourselves...some we took when we were doing stuff. Sut they are all about us and sex.

Be very careful with pictures though...pay attention to what you have saved. My daughter-in-law recently sent me a FWD MSG text, asking for the seventh picture saved on my phone. The picture in the upper left of this blog is the seventh saved picture. So, no, dear daughter-in-law, you will not be getting any saved pictures, seventh or otherwise. Nor will any other family members!

The pictures I have saved are of Dreamer...in her lingerie, close ups of her tits, even closer ups of her pussy. I have pictures of my cock from the few angles I can manage that I send to her. I have pictures of my cock buried in her cunt.

Do the pictures get shared? Sure they do...between us. But we have also shared them with people we have met on-line and they share with us.

Sexting? Oh Hell Yes! Got some you wanna share? I do...

Vibrators, Dildos and Cock Rings

Blue Lizard sez: I do not have a problem with sex toys. I used to...but that was because they were used as a substitute for me. Ex-wives are exes for a reason!

I have discovered that toys add to the sex fun. Dreamer has an assortment of them...even a strap-on dildo she can use to fuck me in the ass...which is new for us and will be the subject of another blog. She has rabbits,dick looking vibrators, a couple dildos of different sizes, and a plug-in "massager".

My collection includes a plug-in massager (not as big or as strong as Dreamer's), a cock ring dildo for double penetration (double the fun!) and different sizes and shapes of cock rings.

We use all of them. Sometimes more than one at a time. And I do not feel threatened by any of them. Dreamer doesn't use them to replace me...she uses them for me. Sometimes she uses them when I'm not home because she is thinking of me and is so ready for me when I do get home. One of my favorite activities is to watch her cum while she is playing with one of her toys.

Funny thing about cock rings. I never felt I needed one. I was proud of my hard-ons. They were firm and I could stay thay way. As I got older, I changed. I can still get a hard-on to be proud of but can't stay that way as long nor does it seem quite as firm.

Enter the cock ring. I can slide that puppy on and I stay hard for a longer time. In fact, the other day, I really got hard...and red...and purple...and veins sticking out all over. No, it didn't hurt...and no, I didn't leave it on longer than I thought safe.

I do know one thing...when I was in Dreamer's pussy, I could feel her down the entire length of my shaft. That in itself is unusual...most of the time all I feel is the upper end, but damn sure not this time.

Toys, for both of us, are fun. They add to the sexual pleasure we enjoy. They make exploration of each other a treat. I know I will never feel the same way about sex toys again. In fact, when we go to our favorite adult store, we always head to the toy wall...just to see what's new and if there is anything we would like to try!

Fetishes

Blue Lizard sez: I have been thinking about what a fesish is lately. Not sure of the definition, I looked it up on an on line dictionary. Part of the definition says "something, such as a material object or a nonsexual part of the body that arouses sexual desire and may become necessary for sexual gratification."

Let's deal with the second part first. I assume that by 'necessary', it means that without 'it', whatever 'it' is, you can't get off. We can throw that part out because there is nothing that I have to have to achieve sexual gratification.

In the first part...'material object or nonsexual part'...I'm going with the literal of material...as in cloth.

I love lingerie. Baby dolls, gowns, bra and panty sets, see-thru, non-see-thru...it doesn't matter to me. I love the idea of figuring out how to get into the top part to feel a nipple get hard. I love the idea of figuring out how to move the bottom part aside so I can slip a finger inside a hot wet pussy, feeling a clit get hard. The idea of lingerie rubbing against my chest is as much of a turn-on to me as any of the rest of it.

And because Dreamer is more that willing to try things that interest me, such wearing any kind of lingerie, I have expanded my list. It now includes bikinis and halter tops. A lot of my cash is going into new bikinis for her. That's not to say I have stopped shopping for lingerie, but now I have more places to look.

The worst excuse I have ever heard for not wearing lingerie is 'he will only rip it off anyway'. What bullshit! If that's what he does, he is an idiot. Another excuse I have heard is 'it doesn't look good on me.' More bullshit! I have never seen any lingerie that looks bad on any body. There is lingerie out there for every body shape and size.

I guess if I have a festish, it has to be lingerie, bikinis, halter tops and cheeky shorts. I love em all! If you have a favorite fetish, let me know. I would love to hear about it.

Fantasies

Blue Lizard sez: We all have em. Fantasies that we think will make our life better if they come true. Most fantasies, at least as far as I'm concerned, are of a sexual nature. Sometimes they come true...sometimes they don't. When they come true, you think up a new one. And when they don't, they remain a fantasy forever.

Being with Dreamer for the last couple of years, all my fantasies, for the most part, have come true. Especially the sexual ones. Anything I want to try, she is all over it. Whether it be lingerie I would like to see her wear, new positions I would like to try, experimenting with toys...you name it, or I name it, she is willing to give it a shot.

Lately, I have had this fantasy about threesomes. It is something I have never done. Mainly because my sexual prowess has not been all that spectacular. Because sex was such an infrequent thing for me, I was less than confident about my performance with another person present. I didn't do well with just one person...how could I manage with two? So, I let it go. But the fantasy was there.

Dreamer has had a threesome, MFM, a couple of times...with the same two guys. She has told me it is not something she is proud of, but she was single at the time and it was one more thing to try. Since then, she has not had another adventure in that direction.

I find myself with a couple of obstacles to a threesome. First...I have no desire to have a threesome with another man present. I'm not sure I could handle watching a man's cock go in and out of her...anywhere. And I have no desire to have anything to do with a man's dick...besides my own. Second...I don't think Dreamer would be comfortable watching another woman doing things with my cock. Nor is she real interested in having any kind of sex with a woman.

My obvious choice for a threesome would be FMF. But I think that will be one of those things that remains a fantasy. I only way around it, I think, would be to find a woman to have a threesome with on-line. We have done that before...which was very interesting. We were looking for just couples when we did that. There was no physical contact with anybody else and we could do whatever we wanted...with a crowd watching.

Fantasies are an amazing thing. Especially when they come true. And when they don't, for whatever reason, they are still a great thing to have!