Sunday, July 12, 2009

Fantasies

Blue Lizard sez: We all have em. Fantasies that we think will make our life better if they come true. Most fantasies, at least as far as I'm concerned, are of a sexual nature. Sometimes they come true...sometimes they don't. When they come true, you think up a new one. And when they don't, they remain a fantasy forever.

Being with Dreamer for the last couple of years, all my fantasies, for the most part, have come true. Especially the sexual ones. Anything I want to try, she is all over it. Whether it be lingerie I would like to see her wear, new positions I would like to try, experimenting with toys...you name it, or I name it, she is willing to give it a shot.

Lately, I have had this fantasy about threesomes. It is something I have never done. Mainly because my sexual prowess has not been all that spectacular. Because sex was such an infrequent thing for me, I was less than confident about my performance with another person present. I didn't do well with just one person...how could I manage with two? So, I let it go. But the fantasy was there.

Dreamer has had a threesome, MFM, a couple of times...with the same two guys. She has told me it is not something she is proud of, but she was single at the time and it was one more thing to try. Since then, she has not had another adventure in that direction.

I find myself with a couple of obstacles to a threesome. First...I have no desire to have a threesome with another man present. I'm not sure I could handle watching a man's cock go in and out of her...anywhere. And I have no desire to have anything to do with a man's dick...besides my own. Second...I don't think Dreamer would be comfortable watching another woman doing things with my cock. Nor is she real interested in having any kind of sex with a woman.

My obvious choice for a threesome would be FMF. But I think that will be one of those things that remains a fantasy. I only way around it, I think, would be to find a woman to have a threesome with on-line. We have done that before...which was very interesting. We were looking for just couples when we did that. There was no physical contact with anybody else and we could do whatever we wanted...with a crowd watching.

Fantasies are an amazing thing. Especially when they come true. And when they don't, for whatever reason, they are still a great thing to have!

1 comments:

Anonymous said...

I think alot of people share your views on this.