Fetishes

Blue Lizard sez: I have been thinking about what a fesish is lately. Not sure of the definition, I looked it up on an on line dictionary. Part of the definition says "something, such as a material object or a nonsexual part of the body that arouses sexual desire and may become necessary for sexual gratification."

Let's deal with the second part first. I assume that by 'necessary', it means that without 'it', whatever 'it' is, you can't get off. We can throw that part out because there is nothing that I have to have to achieve sexual gratification.

In the first part...'material object or nonsexual part'...I'm going with the literal of material...as in cloth.

I love lingerie. Baby dolls, gowns, bra and panty sets, see-thru, non-see-thru...it doesn't matter to me. I love the idea of figuring out how to get into the top part to feel a nipple get hard. I love the idea of figuring out how to move the bottom part aside so I can slip a finger inside a hot wet pussy, feeling a clit get hard. The idea of lingerie rubbing against my chest is as much of a turn-on to me as any of the rest of it.

And because Dreamer is more that willing to try things that interest me, such wearing any kind of lingerie, I have expanded my list. It now includes bikinis and halter tops. A lot of my cash is going into new bikinis for her. That's not to say I have stopped shopping for lingerie, but now I have more places to look.

The worst excuse I have ever heard for not wearing lingerie is 'he will only rip it off anyway'. What bullshit! If that's what he does, he is an idiot. Another excuse I have heard is 'it doesn't look good on me.' More bullshit! I have never seen any lingerie that looks bad on any body. There is lingerie out there for every body shape and size.

I guess if I have a festish, it has to be lingerie, bikinis, halter tops and cheeky shorts. I love em all! If you have a favorite fetish, let me know. I would love to hear about it.