Sunday, August 9, 2009

Vibrators, Dildos and Cock Rings


Blue Lizard sez: I do not have a problem with sex toys. I used to...but that was because they were used as a substitute for me. Ex-wives are exes for a reason!

I have discovered that toys add to the sex fun. Dreamer has an assortment of them...even a strap-on dildo she can use to fuck me in the ass...which is new for us and will be the subject of another blog. She has rabbits,dick looking vibrators, a couple dildos of different sizes, and a plug-in "massager".

My collection includes a plug-in massager (not as big or as strong as Dreamer's), a cock ring dildo for double penetration (double the fun!) and different sizes and shapes of cock rings.

We use all of them. Sometimes more than one at a time. And I do not feel threatened by any of them. Dreamer doesn't use them to replace me...she uses them for me. Sometimes she uses them when I'm not home because she is thinking of me and is so ready for me when I do get home. One of my favorite activities is to watch her cum while she is playing with one of her toys.

Funny thing about cock rings. I never felt I needed one. I was proud of my hard-ons. They were firm and I could stay thay way. As I got older, I changed. I can still get a hard-on to be proud of but can't stay that way as long nor does it seem quite as firm.

Enter the cock ring. I can slide that puppy on and I stay hard for a longer time. In fact, the other day, I really got hard...and red...and purple...and veins sticking out all over. No, it didn't hurt...and no, I didn't leave it on longer than I thought safe.

I do know one thing...when I was in Dreamer's pussy, I could feel her down the entire length of my shaft. That in itself is unusual...most of the time all I feel is the upper end, but damn sure not this time.

Toys, for both of us, are fun. They add to the sexual pleasure we enjoy. They make exploration of each other a treat. I know I will never feel the same way about sex toys again. In fact, when we go to our favorite adult store, we always head to the toy wall...just to see what's new and if there is anything we would like to try!

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

I like when my man wears a cock ring, makes him so hard! But he can only handle wearing it a short time cuz it kills. Is there maybe one that we coud try that would be more comfortable that you might suggest?

Blue Lizard said...

Holy Crap! I did't realize it had been so long since we checked this blog. We weren't getting any response...so we kinda gave up! We are so sorry!

If you're still around, we can only make one suggestion for your man. Find one that isn't so tight. I can wear one for long periods of time that isn't real tight...but tight enough to keep me hard. Go to your local hardware store and find the rubber gasket section. They come in LOTS of sizes. Experiment...

Again...sorry this is from ages ago!